Waste Time
May 25, 2009
When I thinking again about my life, maybe most of time I spent to please others..
Many times to please my parents, to please my brother or my best friend.. and with or without realizing this, I lie to myself..honestly it hurts me very often..coz I can’t tell the truth what I really want (obviously, sometimes I dont know what I want hmmmm).. and as I know, I hurted the others too..
But, a few months ago, some of my lecture talk to me “Far, I don’t really know who said this, but it is very true..: One way to failure is always try to please other people”..
Hmmmm, at the moment, I just think that is it..okayyyy thank u..I dont think about it again..But NOW.. when I take a look of my life..I feel guilty zillion time..just because a small things..or simple things.. it comes very often.. when I’m not living my life in their way..when I failed to please them.. I feel guilty..Untill one time I feel sooooo tired..and my lecture words come again.. hmmm okay, I agree..coz its True.. Sooo I wanna thanks to her for the words!!
U have power of choice..ur life is ABSOLUTELY yours.. not Other..
Anything you choose to accomplish in ur life is in ur hand..so, don’t waste uR time caring about the people who don’t like u, or people who talking about u coz u affect their lives,but they don’t affect yours.
After watching “Nite at the Museum 2″, I’ve got very nice quote like this “If u want to be happy, do what u’re love to do with someone u love”..hmmm nice..
So, now u can said to the world.. I want to be the way I am, and if some people don’t like u, it’s just because u are not living ur life in their way..sooo I said to you again, dont waste ur time!!
Ohhhhh God, I’m always thanks to you for the few best friends who always show me they are always still there and will be there coz they are real friends..Maybe in some way or another I can’t be a good friend for other people..maybe it is my way, and I’m very sorry for this..but I don’t wanna waste my time thinking about this..
Thanks for my angel also my best friend that I ever had : My mum..love u Sweetheart, Ms. YNH who give me a wise word..my “SiSt” Cindy, and also a friend who make me learned from my mistake..u are very helpful eventhough the condition is never be the same..
Let face our WORLD..
cheerSSSSS…
June 2, 2009 at 1:12 am
hmmm nice words “One way to failure is always try to please other people”… and it’s very true.. IMHO one way to be happy is to live in your own life… yeah you must respect other people feelings, but don’t forget about yourself… one quote I remember “It is better to fail at your own life than to succeed at someone else’s..” meaning that even if you fail at least you tasted your own way of life coz I would much rather have regrets about not doing what people said, than regretting not doing what my heart led me to and wondering what life had been like if I’d just been myself…..
CheerSSSS too…
June 2, 2009 at 1:32 pm
heiiiii… thanks anyway..;-)
Uhhh but right now, I always try to make u happy.. hmmm is it wROng? heheheeh
Miss u..
til’ we talk again..
CheeRs…
June 4, 2009 at 1:44 am
Farahh… tergugah gue liat blog elo hehehe…
we cant change the past. So, just make the most of now then you’ll be fine dear… Just live your life today like you wont see the day again.
June 17, 2009 at 1:06 pm
CoLeeee..beibeeee.. my old fRiend..huhuhuuh…
Thanks Le.. iya, lagi belajar untuk selalu berbuat yg terbaik dalam segala hal
Cheers..